When time after time you try and fail and feel like shit, you don't want to bealso feeling guilty about not feeling thankfull you were born or your suffering is just a lesson. We understand that there are many reasons to feel that life has no meaning—among them, not being able to compete in a society that insists on constant productivity, not meeting personal expectations, or not meeting the expectations of parents to be successful. (It is important, however, to remember that “success” is relative.) That's akin to telling them to live as a slave and accept it and to be bound in some non-existent way to how they impact others by their own decision to stop being unhappy...and you don't think that would be enough in itself to push someone over the edge? Start by making a list of all the things you like to do, including those activities you want to be doing, but can't because your current living space doesn't provide that option. Why Fans of Horror Movies May Be More Resilient. That quote makes no sense because there is no sense living if my life is fucked up so I should just die and if there isn't a good reason to live then I'll just be down in the ground. So, your 13 reasons to live are because, well, life is worth living? Give a real life situation, detailed thoughts and events, give this piece some LIFE. The last thing suicidal person want's to hear that life is a gift and you are here to learn. SO scum like you can tell me that life is beautiful, and worth something?! They may have the world's highest taxes, but it's totally worth it. For many people , nothing changes much day to day, I think suicide is an expression of the ego , that the ego will not suffer further and will rather give up playing than battle it out. I believe that one of the reasons little kids and happy couples on dates are happy is because they live in the moment. For many, drugs and alcohol are the last line of defense against suicide. Its a gigantic factory where 70 % of the humans sacrifice for the other 30%. Some people have had such pain and suffering, they question living. Now that I also have rheumatoid arthritis it hurts, physically, all the time, the only thing that takes the pain away is narcotics and sleep, waking up hurts, so why not just go to sleep keep on sleeping? I sometimes consider the far out treatments, such as ECT. The live-action Mulan isn't a musical, first and foremost. That's akin to telling them to live as a slave and accept it and to be bound in some non-existent way to how they impact others by their own decision to stop being unhappy...and you don't think that would be enough in itself to push someone over the edge? I'd like to try TMS and Ketamine infusions, but they are expensive. But when I'm feeling like ending my own life, which is frequent and current, the world looks ugly to me, music becomes an incomprehensible irritant, my children strangers. Fight, I say, fight to your last breath, to a society that has convinced you you are wrong and must be cured. St. John's Wart + Wild Lettuce help some, too, but someday the time will come. According to a study conducted by the Legatum Institute in 2018, Norway is the best country to live in today. They, (a person in crisis) did not really indicate this was going to be. She names 12 people she blames for her pain—be it for bullying, driving under the influence, rape, or other traumas. At best you can expect some verbal version of the list above. There is no consideration for the person suffering here, what they are going through and how they are feeling. A reason for being. This woman who wrote this should know depression is a very real illness that actually needs treatment and can be helped and not this bullcrap! Absurdly out of tune and abstract from real teen experience, like reading a disconnected psychological paper written by someone trying to understand the teenage experience, through their own dissociated, and untrue, memories. No its worthless, see people die, in Syria, Afrika, in wars?! This list is weak and will have very little benefit for those who are on the edge of suicide. Why are so many people drawn to conspiracy theories in times of crisis? They would say, "what a mentally ill person. Please, understand that while the suicide hotline is there to help, it really can only help if someone close to the person is the one calling, that way the person in need of help will hear what the suicide hotline would have said but from someone they actually know. With amazing food, art, churches, castles and cities, as well as beautiful beaches, villages and natural scenery, there are plenty of reasons to travel to France. Number 4, for example. I'd like to try TMS and Ketamine infusions, but they are expensive. ),the lifes of others are a game for you, you play with them and that give a fealing of power, does it not?! Suppose every day is just yet another opportunity to experience negativity or pain? If I could not work and have money, I would. Then, try to remember the best days of your life and what you were doing those days. I'm in the same boat as you. For example, I'm looking to buy a house with about four others. A reason to live. For the first few years every night I severely fantasized about buying a double barrel shotgun and splattering my brains on the wall behind me, believing my cascading brains would mean my decision to blow my brains out was due to THINKING (Kurt Cobain). However, there is always someone to give us a hand during those difficult times. And the adults themselves aren't immune: Like teens, many adults contemplate suicide when feeling hopeless. No, every suicidal person is not mentally ill. For one, suicidal people are probably not jsut thinking about the vague concepts of death. We are shited into this world, no one asks for it, then we get trodden down, first to kill are our parents, if we are lucky then we have normal parents, but then starts this lovely society, this kills us, work, slavery for money, being judged, classivied, being nothing but a number, a worker, no freedom, money! When you have no job, nofamily, friends, or anyone who care, what is the point? Don’t take it personally, but I do suggest you think about it. In the meantime, I haven't lost all hope for one more peaceful moment or improving my life in some way. I do not understand why there’s nonstop BS to live with. You can't understand the reason for their suicides because you are effectively a complete fucking moron . I have to say that alcohol has saved my life a thousand times, as Eric Clapton said, the only reason I didn't kill myself was because I knew if I was dead I could never have another drink, the docs and shrinks drone on and on about how alcohol ruins lives, but they never think about how alcohol and other drugs save lives, by easing the pain. I'm looking for reasons for my new blog elizareasonstolive Would everyone not better understand then, that I exploded my heart to death because I felt too much too deeply and too often? Absurdly out of tune and abstract from real teen experience, like reading a disconnected psychological paper written by someone trying to understand the teenage experience, through their own dissociated, and untrue, memories. People do not necessarily love life and may suffer depression, wish to end their suffering or simply do not see the point of living. Only a mentally ill person would do that." Sometimes, depression does not let us see the beauty of life. If I could have no more romantic rejections and no more wish to find an intimate partner, I would. You can also ask your readers to do it... For heavens sake don't. Oppression is horrible. You are so right ...all you need to do is get sick or have serious problems and your friends and even your family will run for the hills... Dr. Nogales really hits the nail on the head with her insights and redirecting the discussion on suicide. It centers around a girl in high school who kills herself after feeling discouraged and hurt by traumatic circumstances. To live is to look at ourselves in the mirror and discover a message of love in our own eyes. Its a gigantic factory where 70 % of the humans sacrifice for the other 30%. Wait until someone kills themself after reading one of these asinine posts of yours and they find your article on the screen of their pc. We should take care of ourselves because we are important to others—even though we sometimes forget it. Insanely, we know the mentally ill among us are ill because we are reacting to a crazy-making, mixed-messaging insane capitalistic, corporate, rabidly individualistic culture, the healthy response being suicide. Why? You're experience is yours, and his experience is his, some people believe that if you just don't do it everything will get better and you'll be glad you didn't, sometimes it happens that way, sometimes it does not. The voluntarily taken life, particularly at the young end of the age spectrum, perhaps for the reason “I had enough,” may be overly focused on recent pain, and does not get the opportunity to know what lies ahead and get to experience “what could have been.” We are all here but a speck of time. The important thing is to accept that help. Everyday the world tells us we should be something or someone else other than who we are. This series has become very popular. 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